A recent incident involved a “fan” leaving a highly disrespectful comment on the Instagram account of Ainy Jaffri, a model and actor. This has prompted us to address the issue of why society harbors such disdain when women embrace the natural process of aging.
Is there anything more infuriating than women being shamed on social media for their fine lines, wrinkles, or grey hair?
Let’s momentarily disregard the disconcerting fact that individuals believe they have the authority to comment on someone’s appearance, regardless of whether they have undergone any cosmetic procedures or not. Instead, let’s address the underlying issue — our societal aversion to witnessing the natural aging process in people, particularly women.
Aging is perceived as letting go of oneself, subjecting women to judgments about their grey hair and wrinkles, and pressuring them to prioritize appearance.
The myth of aging “badly” or “poorly” assumes a one-size-fits-all standard, disregarding the unique and natural beauty of each person’s aging process. Lines, sagging cheeks, and other changes are normal and should not be subject to judgment.
Aging is a natural process, but women, particularly those in the public eye, face severe criticism for it. If they embrace their wrinkles and lines, they are judged. If they undergo procedures to conceal them, they face even more scrutiny. It seems there’s no winning unless they manage to remain perpetually 25.
Aging changes our faces; expecting youthfulness forever is unrealistic. Embrace your unique journey, whether the changes are significant or subtle, they’re personal and shouldn’t concern others’ opinions.
