Seeking life partner for my sister (40, MBA, divorced twice)

I am sharing this message on behalf of my elder sister, and I kindly request you to read it with an open mind.

I am sharing this message on behalf of my elder sister, and I kindly request you to read it with an open mind.

My sister is 40 years old. She is MBA-qualified, independent, caring, family-oriented, and a truly wonderful person. Throughout her life, she has faced challenges with great strength and dignity.

She has been married twice in the past—first in a love marriage and later in an arranged marriage. Unfortunately, both marriages ended in divorce. She has no children from either marriage.

For a long time, she was hesitant about considering marriage again, as she worries about being judged or misunderstood because of her past experiences. However, after encouragement from family and friends, she has now decided to remain open to the possibility of finding a suitable life partner.

As her younger sister, my only wish is to see her happy with someone who respects and values her for who she is, and to build a peaceful and loving future together.

If anyone in this group—or someone you know—is genuinely interested in a life partner, please feel free to reach out.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, and for your kindness. Please give your advice. Thanks

Solutions ; Ayesha Khan 

Dear, I truly felt sad after reading your sister’s story. I can understand the pain she has gone through, and I can relate to her situation very well, as I have faced a similar experience—twice.

Both of my marriages were completely arranged. The stigma of being divorced made me very afraid, and I even endured difficulties in my first marriage, even though I have a son, MashaAllah, who means the world to me and is the purpose of my life.

I was not willing to remarry, thinking about who would love and accept my child, but family pressure made me reconsider. Unfortunately, the same outcome repeated itself, and I was left alone with my son again.

I did not lose hope. As a doctor by profession, I focused on my career and took full responsibility for raising my child. No matter what the circumstances are, it is usually the woman who is blamed. And when it happens twice, people say, “Was it really the husband’s fault both times, or did she just not find a good partner twice?”

Anyway, Allah knows best.

I wish your sister all the very best. May Allah make her difficulties easier and grant her peace. Ameen.

M Sohy Ifti 

Thank you for sharing your sister’s story so openly. I wish her all the very best in finding a compatible life partner.

I have a sincere question: after two marriages that ended in divorce, what has your sister learned about herself, relationships, and the kind of partner she is truly compatible with?

I believe the answer to that may be more important than any advice given here.

Shahzad Ali Malik 

Kindly first look for issue which ends her both marriages, Council her to get adjusted in marriage life. Once her counciling is complete. She will adjust better in new marriage.

Awais Ahmad 

I really appreciate your openness in sharing this, and I respect the sincerity behind your effort for your sister. She sounds like a strong, independent, and kind person who deserves understanding and respect in the next chapter of her life.

If she is from Lahore, you can also consider registering with the Tableegh-ul-Quran Trust. Many people from my circle have found suitable matches through it, and it is known for serious and family-oriented profiles. It may be helpful as an additional option along with your efforts here.

Wishing your sister peace, respect, and a genuinely compatible partner ahead.

The story is taken from DHA Ladies official group from Facebook and has more than 143k followers.